Why School Emergency Contact Cards are Not Enough

School emergency contact cards are not enoughAs a majority of Michigan children begin school this week, there are a few things parents can put in place now that will help their children and themselves address an unexpected emergency situation if it should arise.

Naming a short-term guardian for your children
Filling out the emergency contact card the school requires is simply not enough, particularly if something happens to you. You, as the parent, are likely the named emergency contact person for the school, but if you are not available by reason of death, incapacity or otherwise, your child could be relinquished to the care of social services until the time guardianship is sorted out. Parents need to seriously consider naming someone as short-term guardian for their children so that confusion and legal hurdles are kept to a minimum during those panicked hours after an accident or illness that may leave the parents in a position of not being able to care for their children.

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Revisiting “Holland”

Emily Perl Kingsley poem Welcome to HollandSeveral weeks ago, I shared a poem written by Emily Perl Kingsley entitled, “Welcome to Holland.” (click here to read the “Holland” Reflections blog post) The poem reflects Kingsley’s experience of raising a child with a disability to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it and in some small way imagine how it would feel.

A recent experience

Based on the overwhelming response to my previous post and the poem, I thought it would be appropriate to share a recent experience I had with my son, Casey, who is autistic. Casey recently spent several days with me at our Suttons Bay home after the Fourth of July weekend. As often happens during the summer months, when balancing two separate homes and office locations in Farmington and Suttons Bay, my wife had returned downstate with the other two boys after the holiday for their summer job and sports camp commitments. This left Casey and me on our own. Although the summer months result in a lot of activity at my firm’s Suttons Bay office, including client meetings and work to do, Casey and I were able to take some time off together.

Casey’s “list of things to do”
One of the items that is consistently on Casey’s “list of things to do” when we are together up north is to take a day and go kayaking on one of the local rivers or lakes. Casey Penning Kayaking on the Crystal RiverOne Saturday morning, we packed our provisions for the day and headed over to the Putt and Paddle at the The River in Glen Arbor, Michigan (www.theriverglenarbor.com) and met Mike, the owner, to outfit ourselves with a kayak for the day’s trip. We chose a trip down the Crystal River and Mike and his crew took good care of us in driving us to the “drop spot” for a several-hour journey down the river.

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Hope On In Faith

We were doubly blessed in January, 1995 with twin boys. Both weighed in at 40 pounds. One was blond and one was dark-haired. There it was – our family complete – three boys under 2 1/2 years of age. Do you remember the poem, what are little boys made of? “Snails, tails and puppy dog tails.” Our lives were busy with diapers, bottles, and watching in amazement how our world went from one to three. Casey PenningWhen our oldest son asked the very next week, after they were home from the hospital, “When can they go back?” I looked at him blurried from little sleep and said lovingly, “No, sweetheart, they are here to stay.”

I knew something was not right about the dark-haired precious little boy we named Casey, after a great uncle. When the twins were developing, the devastating news at 3 1/2 years of age – autism. What is this? Our precious preschooler – this could not be. So, the doctor visits began, and school therapists, along with out-of-pocket expenses.

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Reflection

Normally, our weekly emails provide information on various legal issues to assist our clients, contacts and other subscribers in their personal and business affairs. Today’s “special edition” is somewhat different. Hopefully the following information will make you pause, reflect on life a moment and simply make your day a little brighter. My wife and I have been blessed with three great sons, one of whom is challenged with autism. While not all of us have the challenge of raising a child with special needs, we all experience disappointments and failed expectations in our lives, careers and relationships. While the following poem focuses on the experience of raising the child with a disability, there are many lessons that we can all learn from the message of the author.

Airplane in flightWelcome to Holland

by Emily Perl Kingsley

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Wright Penning & Beamer Attorneys Named “Top Lawyers” by DBusiness

I’m pleased to announce that one of Michigan’s premier business journals, DBUSINESS, recently announced its 2010 “Top Lawyers” in metropolitan Detroit – and three of the principals with Wright Penning & Beamer made the list.

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The Pure Joy of Winning When You Make Your Goals – II

Casey Penning - Winning Autistic Goals Every DayA few weeks ago I posted a blog about my oldest son, Tucker, and his experiences in a high school hockey tournament and about how through perseverance, commitment and hard work he achieved success and assisted his team in winning a tournament semi-final game.

I also quoted various statements by Dr. Alan Zimmerman that appeared in his weekly newsletter entitled “Tuesday Tip” on success. Dr. Zimmerman commented that one must observe four key elements in order to achieve success which are to “toil awhile; to endure awhile; to believe always and to never turn back”.

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ESTATE PLANNING FOR FAMILIES WITH SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN

According to a 2007 census bureau survey, some 6.2% of children ages 5 – 15, a total of 2.8 million children, have disabilities. Individuals with disabilities are living longer than ever. Many disabled children will outlive their parents who support them. The Wall Street Journal published an article on October 9, 2008 titled “An Estate Plan Built for Special Needs”. The piece emphasized the need to make sure that relatives’ estate plans are coordinated. The article pointed out that often times, grandparents and parents of disabled children do not coordinate their plans which can result in a disqualification of the disabled child for certain medical and other supplemental government benefits. In addition, unless a qualified trustee or guardian and conservator are appointed in a parents’ estate plan for their disabled child, assets can be squandered by unscrupulous individuals in charge of these assets. If you have or know of anyone with a special needs child, please do not hesitate to refer them to us for a consultation and review.

Dan A. Penning

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Caring for a Special Needs Child – Difficult Questions, Difficult Answers

It is estimated that one in five families have a “special needs” member.

Parents with a special needs child worry most about what will happen to that child when they are no longer able to care for him or her. If the family is fortunate enough to own a business, planning for the child’s life after the parent’s death can become complicated.Attorney Dan Penning, father of a special needs child


As the parent of a special needs child, Attorney Dan Penning knows what is involved in planning for a child’s future.


For many family business founders, it was the idea of the family working together to secure financial futures that formed the vision and offered the incentive. There must be great comfort in thinking that the business entity will continue to support a child who is unable to support themselves. However, the family business is most likely not the best place to put the financial future of a special needs individual.Individuals with special needs are those who have chronic physical, developmental, behavioral, or emotional conditions that limit their ability to live, think and/or work independently. Basically they are people who cannot make it through life without regular and constant assistance. Certainly there are highly functioning special needs individuals who work successfully, but are unable to perform other life tasks like driving or preparing meals.At some point in the life of the special needs individual, their advocates and caregivers, who are usually their parents, are no longer able to perform those tasks. What happens then?Even the highly functioning individual usually runs into increasing needs as life goes on. While they may be able to work successfully as a young adult, that does not ensure long-term success. A family business could provide the perfect work environment for that special needs individual – a custom designed job around caring folks. Later in life, when his or her parents are no longer involved in the business, how would that continue? Would it make sense to make the special needs individual a shareholder or partner so that they can have some control and reap the benefits of the business?The unfortunate truth is that the special needs individual is likely to end up in a state-supported facility at some point – and likewise become a ward of the state. Funds left to your child may be attached by the government and used in lieu of public funds to pay for the support of the child (who may now be an adult). If your child were to own shares in a business, the state could force the sale and/or liquidation of that business to care for the child. How can you then best provide for the care of your child after your death?Dan Penning, managing partner of Wright Penning & Beamer Attorneys in Farmington Hills, Mich., knows firsthand the difficulties of dealing with these issues. The father of an autistic son who is unlikely to be able to care for himself, Penning specializes in corporate law and is a business owner, but has been through the planning issues from the side of a parent.

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ESTATE PLANNING FOR THE PARENTS OF SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN

Know Your Business

Suttons Bay – August 2008

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